Getting Ready for Sorority Recruitment

It may seem like you are playing a part in a circus as you juggle school, extra curricular activities, a job, church, and a social life among many other commitments. Adding independence from parents and a new sisterhood can make your collegiate experience challenging.

Here are four pieces of advice to help relieve your stress so these can be the “best years of your life” instead of a multi-year circus act. Read the rest of this entry »

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Have you already had an amazing recruitment experience this year? Did you find your new Panhellenic home? Congratulations! You are probably enjoying tons of fun activities with your new sisters.

This is great time to reflect on the other women you met during the recruitment experience. Don’t make the mistake of losing contact with them.  Bolster your collegiate experience by including these three key women in your life right now: Read the rest of this entry »

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Does your roommate like to be naked?  While this preference may present a big problem, it is only one of the potential “personal preferences” you and your roommate may not agree upon.

For many college students, living in university housing will be their first experience not only living on their own but also sharing space with another individual.  In the game of roommate roulette, you never know who you’re going to get. Sometimes roommates have different values and beliefs, which may include divergent views on fraternity/sorority life.

What if your roommate has a negative attitude about the fraternal experience?  Here are six tips on how to handle a skeptical roommate. Read the rest of this entry »

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Choose waterproof mascara.

That’s the simplest, most universal, and safest advice anyone can give you about your last sorority recruitment experience: Preference.  In this article, you will learn what to expect at Preference events, how they are different from the rest of recruitment, and how to deal with the emotions you and the other women might express. Read the rest of this entry »

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Numerous television shows and movies portray Fraternity and Sorority Life as an elite party scene, escape from reality, or horror scene.

How accurate are these depictions?

TRUE or FALSE: Through joining a fraternity or sorority students become part of a social network where drinking, pranks, and partying become important everyday occurrences.

♥ FALSE.  Greek-letter organizations became popular in films during the late 1970s with the release of “National Lampoon’s Animal House” (1978). The film takes college traditions like homecoming, fraternity rush, and house parties and mocks them by presenting the most extreme cases or mishaps that could occur.  For example, the chapter meetings in this film show alcohol consumption.  In reality chapter meetings are alcohol free and run as any professional organization would with procedures and standards. Read the rest of this entry »

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It’s done.  You’ve registered with your Panhellenic Council and tried not to over think it.  But as the date of that first sorority recruitment event draws closer, you’re realizing you’ll need to make both good impressions and educated decisions.

Here are eight great tips to prepare you for the big events.

♥  KNOW what you are looking for in your experience. This way, you can be sure to ask thoughtful questions of the women you meet. Ask yourself, why do you want to join a sorority? Are you looking for women who share your passion for community service? Are you looking to become involved in athletic programs like intramurals?

♥  LEARN. Be sure you are learning all you can about each organization. Most chapters maintain a website about their organization. You can also find more information through your campus Panhellenic, Greek Life or Student Activities Office.

♥  PREPARE.  Discover your strengths by writing down your skills, talents and experiences. Think back to your activities, jobs and the interests you are passionate about. What lead you to being in important positions or earning awards? You will want to share what is special about you and these will be great conversation pieces. Read the rest of this entry »

During formal recruitment a phrase you may hear often is “maximize your options.”   This means you should accept all party invitations extended to you, and attend all events to which you are invited. Here are four reasons you should heed this “maximizing” advice.

♥   Chapter members are skilled in determining who will be a good “fit” in their chapter; more so than you.  Even if you’re unsure about a chapter that has invited you back, give them the benefit of the doubt. Attend the event and meet more people from the chapter.  You might be pleasantly surprised.

♥   All sorority women have friends in other sororities.  While you may only join ONE chapter, sorority recruitment is a wonderful opportunity to make friends throughout the sorority community. Read the rest of this entry »

We at SureSister.com have a Twitter account. Occasionally we will solicit the opinions of our followers on a variety of topics. Recently, we asked people to complete this sentence:

“Being a member of a sorority is important to me because _________________.”

We were astounded by the number of immediate responses to this Tweet – as well as the passion behind them – and thought they were worth sharing.  The most common thought behind these responses of women from every Panhellenic group, from all around the country (and world), is …  parties?  Purses?  You be the judge.

@mahoran “Because my sisters helped me be the best me. Even in the alumnae world, I’ve met women that inspire me.”

@gabbyblack “The life lessons learned in sorority can’t be duplicated & the support to get u through each lesson is behind every corner.”

@LainaMo “Because the my sisters and my experiences with them molded me into the fierce woman I am today.” Read the rest of this entry »

Still unsure about this whole sorority thing?

Don’t worry, you aren’t alone! With formal recruitment starting soon on campuses nationwide, it is time to make the decision. It is common to still have reservations at this point, but what do you have to lose by giving it a try?

Here are four benefits to participating in sorority recruitment this year.

1. It is a great way to meet people.

You will spend multiple days getting to know possibly hundreds of women across campus, both upperclassmen and other first year students like yourself. This will make those first few weeks of not knowing anybody a whole lot easier. Read the rest of this entry »

Sorority members seek many qualities in new sisters, but being able to win a staring contest isn’t one of them.  Knowing how to ask good questions is.

The sorority women you meet during sorority recruitment are as nervous as you when it’s time for that first recruitment event.  They have spent weeks, even months learning communication etiquette and reviewing relevant facts about their organizations – with the goal of getting you to join.

Because you haven’t had all that training, we give you these simple tips on making those introductory conversations shine. Read the rest of this entry »

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